The not-so-secret secret to getting results!

I recently had a very fun realization and I am sharing that with you today which is not a secret but still a secret.

You probably already know my money story and how I used to save up the entire month to buy myself that one coffee from my favourite cafe. Well, last month while doing my finances, I realised that the amount I spent on coffee alone last month used to be my monthly rent! How abundant is thatttt!?

Back then, I used to go to the supermarket and look for the cheapest instant coffee so it wouldn’t burn a hole in my pocket. You see, even Nescafe’s instant coffee was too expensive for me. Today, I buy only the best coffee – ground beans ready to be brewed in different ways. I get coffee from the local cafe whenever I feel like it instead of thinking “I’m allowed only 1 coffee a month.”

Honestly, it’s in moments like these I realise how far I have come. You know it’s all because of the mindset work I did and the corresponding actions I took.

It’s a common misconception that shifting your external environment is the key to feeling better or getting different results. I have a lot of clients who initially come into Coaching thinking
“If only this was different, I would feel better.” OR
“When this happens, I will finally feel secure.”

In fact, believing that something outside of you or somewhere in the future can make you feel differently comes from a scarcity mindset.

I invite you to consider a different perspective – one that holds the potential to truly transform your life.

Imagine this: Sona, a young professional who believed her ticket to financial freedom lay in finding a higher-paying job. Despite landing a new position with a fatter paycheck, she soon realized that her spending habits remained unchanged. She still felt dissatisfied in life and worried that there would never be enough money. She was stuck in a cycle because her money mindset hadn’t changed, even though the external circumstance of a bigger salary had.

Sona’s story is a reflection of a larger truth: changing your environment won’t change your results. Changing your mindset will.

Just like a new job doesn’t break the cycle of feeling underpaid, winning the lottery won’t guarantee everlasting happiness, and a bigger house won’t fill the void of not feeling financially secure. It’s the patterns we hold within ourselves – our beliefs, attitudes, and perspectives about money – that ultimately shape our financial reality.

Consider the following real-life examples to know the secret:

1. The Lottery Illusion: You might dream of winning the lottery as the ultimate escape from financial worries. However, unless you break that internal barrier of thinking you are bad with money, newfound wealth can vanish as quickly as it appears.

2. The Bigger Paycheck Myth: You could manifest a job with a higher salary or income, but without a shift in money mindset, the belief of “I am not worthy of more money” can undermine any progress you make.

3. The Material Trap: While impulse shopping and retail therapy might temporarily fill the void of unfulfillment, they won’t bring lasting contentment if feelings of scarcity and lack plague you.

4. The Get-Rich-Quick Temptation: This ties in with the lottery illusion. Wanting to make lots of money quickly without setting the foundation to receive it means you will lose it as quickly as it came. A lot of people have this limiting belief that says “Money doesn’t stay with me.” True financial growth requires informed decisions, patience, and a long-term strategy.

5. The Windfall Paradox: This one is more common than you think! Waiting for an inheritance to save you from a life of lack is like expecting a monkey to give you its banana. Even an inheritance can slip through your fingers without the right financial literacy and mindset to sustain it.

As you read these stories, you might resonate with Sona’s journey or find echoes of your own experiences. The good news is that you hold the power to rewrite your money story. Remember, the power lies within you; it’s entirely an internal game – MINDSET is everything!

It’s time to embark on a journey of self-discovery, one that explores your beliefs about money, abundance, worthiness and other not-so-secret secrets.

Today, I encourage you to take the first step towards your wealthy life by joining us for the Absolute Abundance program.

During the program, you will identify your limiting beliefs around money, reflect on your own money patterns, recognize the impact of your mindset, and commit to nurturing a healthy relationship with money.

The real catalyst for growth lies within you – in your beliefs, attitudes, and actions. Take this first action from a place of excitement and then watch as your reality evolves from the inside out; just like the 50+ people who did this program before you.